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In Australia, 18 is the legal adult age. It is culturally appropriate to celebrate big — go hard or go home type of celebration. Yes I was excited to have a huge party, but I also thought often of moving out.
For those of you who know me personally, probably know how often I would get grounded throughout high school. Yes, I said high school.
I was stubborn, strong-willed and hated being controlled. I thought I knew everything. Seeing my younger brothers out late while I was not allowed out after a certain time drove me mad. Not only was it double-standards, it was expected that I obeyed (hint: of course I didn’t). I rebelled. A lot. And got grounded for it. A lot.
Because of this, I made my mind up about moving out as soon as I was a legal adult. I realised years later, my parents were just trying their best to raise a girl in a world where our safety is statistically threatened.
Although my first rental experience was with extended family, the amount of freedom I suddenly had was such a relief. Yes, I now had responsibility with rent and being more organised, but this responsibility meant that I was free.
Since then, I have lived in 5 different homes over the last 7 years. All with their own benefits and challenges. I share these with you below!