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1. Is a relationship what you want right now?
Each person is at different stages in life. Some are focused on their career, some are focused on family and some are rolling with the waves of life.
Is a relationship something you would like at this stage in your life? If so, continue reading.
If not, that’s okay. You can still keep reading.
2. What are your expectations in a relationship?
Being clear about each others’ expectations can be beneficial to long-term companionship.
For example, do you prefer cooking or shopping alone? Are you the team-type and like to get errands done together? Do you hang out with your friends often and expect your partner to tag along?
Knowing what you’re both in for, is a great way to deepen understanding in the beginning.
3. Do you see a future with this person?
You’ve spent time getting to know them — great. Are they someone you can envision your future with? I’m not just talking about marriage, babies, and a house or two.
I’m talking about partnership.