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It all started in primary school: a friend shared a harrowing experience with me and since kids love to share differences and find commonality, I thought this was part of normal conversation.
However, over the next decade, I’d come to realise one of my strengths would be listening to another’s stories, achievements and struggles that others may not hear in “normal” conversation.
Fast-forward to high school: throughout my senior years, people would pull me aside to let me know about something they’re struggling with.
Sometimes I would be shocked, confused, heartbroken or overwhelmed for them. But I was also thankful that they felt comfortable enough to share these things with me.
Most of the time, my friends just needed a listening ear. By the end of a short conversation, they’d say they felt much better.
Listening to another’s story takes empathy, patience and an open mind.
So how can we honour someone when they share their story with us?
1. Be kind.
Show kindness to the people around you.
I do my best to show my friends that I value them by making time to support them in their time of need.